This...has been going on for a bit....so most of you may know I'm pan (and in a lesbian relationship)....but I've been holding back on coming out...you might be wondering why. Well, let me tell you;so, my family are huge homophobes...how I found this out is simple. So me my aunt my uncle and my brother were going to the store and well I had a Gatorade, and well my brother asked me what I had and I told him, well he thought I said "gay rights" and my uncle (with out taking hid eyes off the road) said, "gays don't deserve rights" and I had to hold back. And well, my cousin is pan and Every time we see her she always gets dirty looks from my uncle. And I'm afraid of telling them...I'm afraid they'll disown me...I've already lost a friend to coming out...and I don't wanna loose my family...that's another thing I had on my mind...