Be careful with your imagination. Don't let come too close to reality. Don't bring your fantasy into everyday life. Achieve your dreams, but don't forget the struggle. Don't block out pain. In order to take it you need to be strong and calm, don't hide from it. Make your mind a positive place to think through your problems, don't imagine different scenarios, don't pretend you're okay. Talk to someone, don't stay alone too long. Surround yourself with family and friends. Sometimes it's easy to imagine your life is perfect, but living in the moment is what's going to help you survive. Take charge of your life, don't waste it being afraid to take chances. Put work and care into things you're uncertain about. Surprise and scare yourself. Treat yourself, but not too much. Stay healthy, but not too healthy. Choose to be happy.