When parents compare their kids to some other kids hurts...
Imagine having to hear your mother say my kids compared to your kids my kids are the worst or something like that it hurts doesn't it... Do you know if I was allowed to wish a couple things every single day I will wish for my mom not to compare me to my sister because so what if  my sister doesn't get good grades that doesn't give you permission to compare her to me how I get good grades at least my sister passed and you know I love my mother so and I know it's hard for her to but comparing people to different people whether it's your skin race grades Hardwork it doesn't matter you don't compare your kids to anyone because that's not how it works you don't know how it feels to have to be compared to someone and the parents think it's all cool to compare their kids to different types of kids in different types of skin race and I'm not saying my mom compares me to skin race but other kids do and comparing your kids at all is dumb why would you compare your kids to anyone else like answer that why would you compare your kids