the basic definition of a fetish is a part of the body that is sexualized that is not reproductive.

this means that if you sexualize boobs, that's a fetish. but some things are not a fetish.

for example, i find collar bones, arms, and hands to be beautiful parts of the human body. this does not mean i have a fetish, because i have not sexualized them. i find them to be attractive, but not sexually.

i know that everyone here jokes about lemon fetishes or mango fetishes or whatever, and i get the jokes and sometimes i'll make the jokes. but in all seriousness, sometimes it takes a step to far. i'm not saying anyone on here does, but people irl do. i know a girl who once joked about having a foot fetish and she can't live it down and everyone texts her pictures of feet, claiming to be nudes and it's to the point where she has more blocked numbers in her phone than she bas contacts, because she hates being associated with that one joke.

all i'm saying is please know the difference between what is and isn't a fetish. sometimes those "jokes" really get to people.

(also make fetish jokes to me all you want it doesn't bother me i was just thinking because it's 6am and i need more sleep)