SHE!

As the children grow....their behaviour changes! She need to change eventually to bring them up! 

Try to make her angry and see! You will see her new avatar! Whatever she have in her hand at that moment will be flying to you!

Ethule than nambe aadi vangele? Hanger thukithu odivaruvange paarunge......Nambe mathum enna chumma va? Veedeye round adipom le! Avanghele tired aithu vithuthu poiruvange! Thodapam parakume....Marake mudiyuma? Kitchen le ethum panna....karandile adivilum! Ezhuthu nalla illana....ruler le virale adivilum! Athevide mukiyam.....school le dappa ve maranthuthu vantha? Mudinchi anniki nambe kaathai! (Naan ithe vaangiruken) Enna aadi! 

But after all this.....

She will definitely ask one thing....

She: Innum evvalo neram ippedi ye irupe? Sapde vaa!

All the anger in us is just gone like that....

That is she!

It would be more challenging handling children at teen age! Usually at this time, the family faces more emotional fights! Children will be more to their passions but parents is afraid of their future! It's a kind of insecure feelings that will occur between parents (especially father) and children!

Thambi: Appa! Naan ithu padikemathen! Ennaku ithu venam! Naan.... (tells about his dreams)

Appa: Aama daa! Ithe padicha.. etho oru velaiyayavathu kadaikum! Athe panna enna daa aagum? Enna velai seive? Pesame itheye paadi! Dream athu ithu nu!

Papa: Appa! Avanuku pidichathe avan seiyathume Pa! Yen avane....

Appa: Oh.....Neeyum avanuku support ah? Appe neeyum ethum dream athu ithu nu...unnakum solluve? Appedithanne?

Papa: Appedi illai Pa!

She: Aiyooo konjam amaidhiya kelungele Nghe! Neenge rendu perum enna ethiki pothiya Appa te pesuringe.........

Even at this moment.....She will be the middle person! She need to bounce at both places! She tend to take all the blames!

She tend to support the children...gets punishment from husband (he gets angry and don't talk to her and start ignoring her) Or vice versa.....if she tend to support the husband....gets punishments from children (they become silent or tend to lock themselves in room or ignoring her)

But still she will try her best to bring both parties together! Even the husband or the children can never punish her too long! Her love and care for them will fail all their punishments and make their heart lighter and go back to her! She will never mind all this and take them whenever they come back to her!

She is the heartbeat of the family!

Children at their marriage age! She will be the best advisor! Even her husband doesn't tend to take actions alone for their children's future! He seeks her! Yes she is the best advisor! She really knows what's good and bad before you tell her!

She is a good spy too! If she suspected her child to be in love.....she will somehow tell him or her.....maybe harsh or sometimes polite...if he or she can be your partner!

Trust me! She can never be wrong....Her excuses might be lame....But she will be the best answer! She is has all the answers for the questions thrown to her!

After children are married......

If she or he is having Her with them...... Or even they have gone away from her..... She still care for them and their family! She will never bother about herself! Even if the child is not talking to her daily or not visiting her frequently..... She still ask and talk about them to her Husband and friends! She still have the same care and love for her children even if they have their own family!

Even if she is put in an old folk home.....

She still tells about her children proudly to her friends there! She will always long to meet them! But even if they are not there to see her, she doesn't bother much....she will keep on telling "They are busy! But they will come soon!" Even from there, she will be praying for their family to be safe and sound! Even at this hard situation, she will only blame herself and not her children for putting her here!

She will always have the same unconditionally love for her children! 

Even at her deathbed, her heart will be still thinking of her children and husband! Even her soul will definitely not ready not to leave them alone on earth and goes back where she came from!

For all this love.... Which she gives unconditionally to all her children and even to Her Man.....since the day she become the Wife.... And the day she become the Mother.....till she goes into the sand.....

Have she expected anything in return?

Nope! She don't! She will never!

She only knows to give!

She don't take anything from us!

She don't ask for anything!

But all she need is our Love!

Give all your Love to her!

Try to fulfil her chinna chinna aasai! Make her the happiest Mother!

Even now...she will said "her aasai is only to see all her children and Husband live a successful and happy life!" She will not tell her any of personal aasai! 

That is she!

She!

இனியொரு ஜென்மம் எடுத்து வன்தாலும்

உன் மகனாகும் வரம் தருவாய்!

Mother! Amma! Mom! Ma! Whatever you call her!

This lady......God's greatest gift to humankind!

No one can replace her! Nothing is biggest than her unconditional love! 

Treasure her when you still have her with you! 

She! 

அம்மா!

வாழும் காலம்
யாவுமே தாயின் பாதம்
சொா்க்கமே.... 

வேதம் நான்கும்
சொன்னதே அதை நான்
அறிவேனே .....

அம்மா என்னும்
மந்திரமே அகிலம் யாவும்
ஆள்கிறதே....

Happy Mothers' Day! 

Thank You Amma!

THE END!