Welcome to episode 4 of my blog!

Love is a word widely misunderstood by many. I'll help you out and define love according to my terms.

Love is placing your trust in a imperfect human the make a prefect union. Love is the greatest force on the universe. Love is a currency widely accepted in all nations of the world. Love is a language understood by all and sundry, by all races, by even the deformed, the deaf, the blind, the dumb. Love, to the Christians, the believers, is God. You don't have to be in relationship to show or give love. Love protects, love pursues and love provides. It is a vital force to attaining self peace. Love gives and never expects a take back. Love forgives; love is never jealous. Love is not mechanical; it flows. Love never ends.

Any love that doesn't give is fake. Giving is a proof of undaunted love and giving is a proof you have conquered greed.

The thing with love is that, it attracts blessings. When I say blessings, I mean everybody loves you, wants to be around you, some even want to be like you. Yes, you'll get bad energy but keep on. Those are just people that get annoyed because you are loved by all. They'll sorely come. Life wouldn't be interesting and frankly wouldn't be life without you having oppositions.

You have to give expression to love. You can grow in love and that's a good thing. There are people out there in need of a shoulder to lean on. There are people out there that need to feel this, that the world is not a dark place after all. That is is not full of verbal abusive people, stock up and arrogant people. It doesn't matter where you are, there's always somebody you could reach out to. Never be too stingy with knowledge. Share it. Freely you were given, therefore freely give. There is no way one person would show all the kindness. We have to do this as a team. To make the world less toxic and more breathable.

You could give out love in different ways; uplift people by recommending inspiring and uplifting quotes, Bible scriptures and music. I do that everyday on my Instagram (link in bio!), you could give support to those in need. Never despise anyone, never dismiss anyone, never reject someone in need of help because no condition, no situation is permanent. You don't know where in life you'll meet that same person or if in the near future, that person would have the capability, the ability or even be in a position to help you.

But at the same time, while you give love, don't let down yourself to a position of being used as a rug or foot mat to be stepped on. Kind people are mostly taken advantage of. It'll happen. That's something you can't avoid but let them know that being kind doesn't make you a stupid person. They'll try to bring you down but stand firm, stay firm and remain firm. The time will pass. Don't let other peoples toxic character influence you. Stay away from negativity, from bad energy. Don't be around people who bring you down.

While your loving humanity, don't forget to love yourself too. There are never two of every individual in the world. Even identical twins don't have the sane fingerprints. That shows how different and unique everyone is. Every day choose life. Choose to do something that uplifts you and not drain you. Chose your health (mental, psychological and bodily) first. Be in a right position, a right standing with yourself. Self care is just as important as humanity care. If you're not in the right place, take a walk or a breather, play some inspiring music, talk to someone helpful, read you Bible, an insightful book or something that's a mood changer but don't, never act on impulse or you may do something you will gravely regret.

Love more and more. Ceaselessly, tirelessly, relentlessly and continuously. Not once and for all but once and again. I promise you that this would he the best decision you've ever taken.

Don't forget you can talk to me about any and everything. The comments are open for you all sweeties. I'll love to known of this has helped you so DM me on my Instagram or Twitter and follow me for more updates coming soon. I hope today's episode was indeed helpful to you. See you in the nest one.

With all love,

Jess x.