-Flip a coin! If it's heads, then the family member is alive. If tails, they unfortunately passed away.  Then, flip again to find out if their adopted or not. If heads, then they are, and you can decide which tribe adopted them. Do this for each of the following: 

-The mother.

-The father. 

-Siblings. (You can choose the genders/choose to have no siblings)

-Grandmother.

-Grandfather. 

-Aunt. 

-Uncle. 

*Dermestid isn't adopted. Her mother (Anasa) and father have passed away due to sickness; her older sisters (Damselfly and Fairyfly) have died by Queen Wasp's claws; her grandmother's (Ruby-tail) alive and has raised her since dragonethood; her grandfather (Alderfly) has passed away due to old age; her aunt's (Horntail) alive, but doesn't visit her often, and her uncle (Darner) passed due to unknown reasons. (Geez lol!)