When I go out sometimes I don't have presence

For example, I was ordering my food and the person behind the register didn't really see me and she saw the person behind me instead

Then one of the workers came up and tapped my shoulder

"Excuse me did you let that person go first or?.." I blinked then looked around

Then stared at him

"You see me. No, I haven't ordered yet... she won't notice me"

"I'll take your order then"

Pretty much that and after getting my order and eating lasagna alone there was this girl that came up to me and asked

"Hey, you alone mister?" She was smirking.

I was panicking. I'm not a guy.

"Uh you're mistaken-"

"Excuse me, but I have to ask you to back down on her unless you're lesbian" the same guy came and shooed off the girl

I swear.

I get mistaken as a guy, I cannot be seen at times, and I am also awkward outside.

I need help

Send help