if i had to give all of you one and only one lesson it would have to be the magic of chilling out

we as a society take ourselves waay too seriously. like, yall, not much of anything is that big of a deal. youre not that big of deal. learn to take things in stride and just. laugh sometimes

everyone would be so much happier if they pulled out that giant stick shoved up their buttcrack and just smiled some more. stop being petty and just have a good time. life's way to short to act like everything is serious (bc it aint)

this extents to our interests and hobbies. i could probably write you a paragraph on why art is important to me if you stuck a gun to my head but tbh thats just way too much work and effort and lets be real i just love cute fictional boys. im not that cool, you're not that cool, and that celebrity over there aint that cool

"but fancy, dont i have inherent worth?" of freaking course lol. but yah life aint some melodrama that ABSOLUTELY CANNOT be disgraced by a blunder or someone calling u dumb. just chill and recognize youre not all hot stuff.

smiling and learning to let things go just. makes u more free. next time ur all panicky abt some social thing and what other people think abt u just take a step back and ask urself "yo but will this amount to anything in 10 years" if the answer is no than u have permission to treat it as a joke bc it probably is

at the end of the day it matters 0 if some kid online halfway across the world doesnt like you. it doesnt matter if someone at school doesnt like you. its hard to stomach, yes, but petty social crap like that doesnt amount to anything, man. find some good friends (or even just one) and stick with them.

in general, just...learn to enjoy life more often. dont psyche yourself up with "this thing will make me happy/im looking for something to make me happy" just. let it happen. happiness can be found anywhere. the funs in the ride there, not the destination.