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There are moments when you are more significant than those who are merely there to drain you of your entire being. Don't allow somebody to sap your positive energy. To avoid feeling overburdened or exhausted from attempting to be there for others, always schedule time for yourself.

You need to have time with yourself so you can reflect on yourself too. You need time to think deeply with yourself and realize who you are as a person. This can be figuring out your identity, figuring out your next goal, even going as far as figuring out your life plans for your future. Whatever the case is, it's good to make time with yourself and just reflect on who you are and what you plan to do with yourself in the future.

It is super nice to be there for people, but you also need to be there for yourself. If things are getting out of hand, never feel selfish for telling those people you need to distance yourself a bit. Never be afraid to let someone know they are being too much on you, that you need to clear your spirit from all that extra weight.

You matter just as much as that person matters, but if you need a break, TAKE THAT BREAK.

If this quote speaks to you, you probably should consider cutting a few ties with people. People that dump their problems onto others and expect that person to have all the answers never teaches that person how to deal with anything on their own. Don't be the answering machine to someone who isn't willing to face their fears and are a coward to facing experiences and getting life lessons. You can't teach an unteachable person who isn't willing to learn for themselves. You just can't.

So stop doing it. It's not selfish, it's not cruel. You're only doing it to better yourself and your own mental state of mind. That is not at all a selfish thing to do. You're merely looking out for yourself and also taking care of your mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Never ever feel bad for being there for YOU! 

With that here is the quote-

"You attract damaged people because your energy is authentically rare, but very healing. 

People end up coming back because they want more access to it.

That's why you must value YOUR time and YOUR energy immensely.

Stop being the jumper cables to people who have the energy of a dead car battery,

they will literally drain you."

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Love,

~Rissi