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We often forget that when someone hurts us, we tend to blame ourselves for their reactions or moods. However, we must realize that we are not the reason for their behavior; they get upset due to their own nature and ended up taking that anger out on you. 

If someone is frequently angry with you, it reflects who they are as a person. They may be generally grumpy and miserable, and this negativity is directed toward everyone, not just you. It just happened to be that you were they while that person was upset.

You are not the problem, so never convince yourself that you are. Some people who are mean and nasty may resent those who are happy and have a bubbly personality. They actively seek those that have this personality and try and destroy that person's mood. Because in the mind of a miserable person is "If I'm not happy, no one else should be happy."

In other words everyone must feel or be in the same unhappy mood that the other person feels. Because to them they feel "better" that no one else is being happy and they feel better about themselves and whatever made them such a bitter person in the first place.

If you know you are a good person who practices kindness, and someone still becomes upset with you, remember that the issue lies with them, not you. If you act according to your values and morals and treat them with respect, but they are still rude, you are not at fault. 

You understand yourself better than anyone else does. No one else knows your thoughts and feelings as you do. If you are sure you are a good person, hold on to that belief, regardless of what miserable people may say to bring you down. 

If you know you didn't create the problem or instigate the drama, it's best to be mature, walk away, and say nothing. Your decision to walk away speaks volumes. Walking away demonstrates confidence and bravery. By getting up and leaving someone who is problematic, you show that you are not easily offended or manipulated. It signals that they have lost the argument they tried to start. 

Remember, kindness will always triumph over jealousy, pettiness, rudeness, and anger. Always keep that in mind.

With that here is the quote-

"I was extremely sad for how someone treated me, but then I remembered how kind I am to people, that's a reflection of me.

How people treat me is a projection of their character, and not a reflection of my value.

May I always remember that.

I'm taking my power back!"

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Love,

~Rissi