perhaps? who knows

i dont think kinks are inherently wrong or should be shamed

look, i base my morals on the bible. and guess what? the bible in no way bans kinks or anything like that (as far as i know)- as long as the people are married, its cool. theres no "thou shall not pretend your gf is a dog and youre a dog trainer"

and? i honestly dont understand why people get so hot and bothered over this. in a more sense, its literally none of your concern what two consenting, sane minded adults do in the bedroom. it does not hurt nor affect you.

people like to call bdsm abuse- that's Literally Not the Point. different strokes for different folks is in full effect here- just cause u dont find handcuffs and a whip hot, doesnt mean it's Bad Wrong for everyone else. this isnt some dominatrix tying some poor dude up in her basement, this is a couple seeking pleasure in a way you dont find appealing.

and if someone wants to call their lover "daddy"? look its weird as all get out but dont you dare compare that to the sexual abuse of ACTUAL CHILDREN.

however, the line must be drawn when people who do not consent to the kink are exposed to it- aka, no dog collars in wal-mart you freaks. keep it in the bedroom.

youre allowed to be grossed out by this stuff (i know i am), but invading someone's privacy and telling them theyre not allowed to practice something harmless is nasty yo

i hold my right to mercilessly mock ddlg bc whew boy it's friggin hilarious, but it ain't morally wrong