Tom

You met on set of one of his movies and clicked right away.

Loki

You met on Asgard, in fact you grew up together and he admit his love for you under the stars on the rainbow bridge.

James

You met in a bar. You two planned out a first date and even though he was rather drunk but he remembered your face and showed up to the date in a better state then when you met.

Thomas

You met at a party when you were young teens and neither of you ever got over that first dance.