Hey everyone, the point of this book is to give a couple of tips on talking with people. There's a lot of different people in the world, people react in different ways, talk differently (I don't mean this in a rude way I just mean to say some might be really open and willing to talk about almost anything, while others may be the opposite, etc.) Everyone is different and you sometimes have to talk to people in different ways, you might have to watch what you say around a person, that's sensitive (again not in a rude way, there's nothing wrong with being sensitive) so you don't upset them, with others you could say almost anything. There's tips in this book about dealing with people when they make you angry, or upset among other things.

These are some tips that I have picked up when talking to people, these tips can be used online or in real life. Being the founder of the Rose Angel Community, I talk to different people, and I want them all to understand what I'm saying but I don't want to be rude or offend them. Sometimes we offend people without meaning too and it hurts us when the other person is hurt. 

I'm a pretty quiet person in real life, I prefer to not talk sometimes, big groups of people? Their not my type, I prefer small groups with close friends. A lot of people tell me I need to talk more and engage with more people. Sometimes if I see someone sitting on their own I will go over to them and introduce myself, but I find it hard to go up to big groups and talk to them. And that's okay, you hear me? It's okay. My parents always ask why I don't invite more people over or talk to more people and I say "That's just the way I am, I'm not a rude person but I prefer small groups over big ones." My parents respond with "Then you have to change yourself." And for anyone else going through the same thing, you do not have to change. Be you!

It took me a long time to understand that I'm me, and me is good, I don't have to be someone I'm not, yes, sometimes it is good to go out of your comfort zones for a while, but you do not need to pretend to be someone your not, or act any different. Going out of your comfort zones you can meet new people and experience things you might actually like, but you don't have to be someone your not long-term.

I'm not saying all of these tips will work with everyone, but they will work with some people.

- Founder: Vallari

(@RoseAngelCommunity )