When your talking to someone who your trying to make them see what their doing is wrong.

So sometimes we talk to people that we're trying to make them see what their doing is wrong. For example it might be someone that's posting something, that's aimed at someone else in a wrong way or cyber-bullying someone else, etc. People bully others, it sucks to be bullied, sometimes the bully thinks they are doing the right thing, when they are not, sometimes your someone on the outside trying to stop the bullying from going any further. 

When you think or see someone who is saying something about a different person, like someone may post the actions of someone else, and the poster (person who is posting) is telling other people to hate on and spam them. Telling people about the wrong actions of others is good, so that the person doing the wrong actions can be stopped but telling people to hate on them and spam them is wrong. 

When talking to someone who your trying to get them to see what their doing is wrong try:

✨Don't say rude things to them immediately - I know its instinct to tell people to delete their book or post or whatever, along with telling them in a rude manner that what their doing is wrong, but this does not help. It only makes the person defensive and likely to say something rude and mean back to you, they will not understand what their doing is wrong and they will continue to do whatever they are doing.

✨Be polite - I know it sounds absurd but this will help you try to make the other person see what their doing is wrong. Being polite to the person instead of saying "I saw what you did, your horrible, take it down!" but instead saying "I saw your post about (insert topic here) and I wanted to talk to you about it" Instead of immediately telling them what you think about them, try making them understand why you feel/think that way. Being polite helps the person feel that your not attacking them, but instead trying to see what their doing is wrong, and they will be more open to admitting or deleting their post etc.

✨Keep saying things like 'I'm not trying to offend you', 'I'm not saying your a bad person' etc. - Saying things like this will also help the person know your not trying to attack them, and most people will consider what their doing is wrong. Some people if you attack them will block you, saying things like this and being polite will make the person blocking you less likely.

✨Agree on some things with them - If the situation is right, agree with the person on some issues, this will help the person see that you agree on some things with each other, and is likely to listen to what you have to say.

✨ If they still do not understand - Some people will still not understand and may leave you on read or will block you, if they block you try getting other people to report the account or talk to them. If they start saying rude and mean things to you, do not take it personally, and say something like "I'm sorry you feel that way." This lets them know that they cannot hurt you by being mean, some may continue to say offensive things, if that happens just block the person. Hey, at least you tried to make them understand.

These tips will not work with everybody, but will work with some. I may come back to the chapter to add more tips later on.

If you've tried these tips, you can comment your results!

If you want advice personally feel free to message this account @RoseAngelCommunity or any of the other Rose Angels and I/we will respond and try my/our best to help.

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