I saw a post that basically said if a man cheats on you stay or you'd sleep around after

Because everyone life is the same

So she should sit there till he gives her hiv?

Why can't she have something doing that she doesn't need to sleep around

Why can't she have morals and be unable to to disrespect her body?

Why can't she find love again with another man that loves her and their kids

Why can't she leave a good life and move on

Why can't she get a good opportunity and move out of the country

Why can't she live her best life after leaving an abusive relationship that probably gave her mental scars?

All this narrative needs to stop
Life is not black and White

And this stay with your husband, build your marriage, she it's only insult that's breaking you emotionally have a tough skin,she he only slapped you why are you crying, she he only beat you sometimes why are you making noise, she he only cheated once on you calm down build your home because the home belongs just to her, shey it's just another family or more kids understand it's your home etc it goes on and it's unfair

Women and human too and they hurt just as much it's not fair

Then she leans and look horrible cause of stress, why won't your husband go outside

She adds weight because of a child, his child when you are fat anyhow why wouldn't he cheat
Etc

Then she gets hiv or constantly treating STDs why didn't you leave on time

She commits suicide, because of the emotional abuse she's not a good mother why did she thinks of her kids for they are just hers

She dies due to beating
Why didn't she leave on time after he slapped her first time she's foolish

Give women a break as you have mothers, sisters and ladies as friends

And if we are being honest the man needs the relationship more but how they managed to sell it to us it's us that needs it more is one thing I can never understand 💔

Here he supports Andrew Tate and Shola( a Nigerian influencer that spreads hate against women), saying they did nothing wrong by what they put out to the public

They are hateful and spread hate against women it's ok

You can't understand how dangerous it is to be a woman already then they fuel it, some guys swallow this narratives up and hate on women use them, hurt them dismiss them and kill them too
But you don't understand because you aren't a women and you don't know the fear of working home at night scared of being raped, harassed, molested, assaulted or even killed