Okay to start off I am not dissing anyone on purpose I'm just giving my stance on fandoms and those who inhabit them. I am a fangirl but on the calmer side of the fandoms that I participate in. While I'll admit to having a crush on at least one character or person in my fandoms I don't spend every hour day dreaming about them I have people that I have to socialize with. There are many types of fangirls, however I'm the passive-aggressive type I won't actively stalk them or constantly be looking at pictures I will look at pictures when I'm feeling down and need to be reminded that I am not alone there are others like me. I tend to stay as far away as I possibly can from the toxic side of the fandom, I do acknowledge that it's there. So I say you do you fangirls and leave me out of it.