If you ever leave where you are, which place would you like to go to?

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I don't know who needs to read this but I am a person who fully believes in self love.

What is Self love?

To me self love is to appreciate your self the way you are,to be confident of your body, to be positive about your self.

Okay let's begin with our bodies, you are big, probably you even think you are not in the normal shape ...now baby girl its a total noooooo come on who the hell said that, I know you want to look like that model in the magazines you read, with milky shining skins , nice hair....now how about you accept the fact that you ain't that  model. Believe it or not there will always be a girl cuter,more cuter, cutest than you, with the hips you dream of the hair you firmly want,the accent you adore, the status you love with passion. But the fact is YOU DON'T HAVE THEM.

Baby if you don't love your self, you will never be confident with yourself..Accept yourself the way you are , be kind to your self , you dont know how many people who are yearning to get those legs you abuse, maybe they are lame, you dont know how many people are wishing to have that kind of hair on you which you hate , probably they have cancer and they are left with bald heads. Am not saying that you don't go miles on your body, work on yourself, go to the gym, dress up and move to the fucking world with confidence and vibrance without giving a Damnnnnn  on what others think of you, Just act like a queen.

Now let's go to the skin colour, probably they are many of them I can't even finish if I start. Dark skinned girls , I know there are those times you really feel bad for being dark..maybe you are being bullied and judged ,some even resort to skin bleaching. Now if you ever feel like that,baby girl just remember that there is a whole continent with black people , they are many they feel comfortable with their skin colour, just incase you feel  unique and abnormal, just remember that.

If you have acne, for girls with acne fight it I know but dont be so shy about it, covering it with foundation, I told you from the start there has to be someone better than you that's the world we live in , walk with vibrance, walk with confidence , arise, shine and they feel your vibe wherever you go.

What am I trying to say, is to accept ourselves the way we are, if you ever feel lonely just keep it in mind there is that one person or persons who love you though they can't say it out, those who adore you though they aren't near you, those who like everything about you.

Don't hate your self ...accept yourself the way you are...be kind to your self ...people who love you won't leave you for others even if there are a million reasons to leave you.

Whenever you feel like you are not enough, think about this there are people who find you as their role models , who look up to you to do things you are not aware how many people are fighting to be like you.

A case in point is that you are writing a book, you ain't getting reads and votes, you feel discouraged and you unpublish it...now let's agree on this Rome wasn't built in one day ...everything takes time, you can't rise from zero to hero in month, it requires hustle, working hard, making research etc why do you unpublish your book, how about you improve it and advertise .....in this world, in everything you do  quitting should never be an option.

Why do you find it hard to believe in yourself?? Who told you you can't?

#self love
#be kind to your self
#be positive about your life
#Accept yourself the way you are and work harder to go where you want to be.
#Let your self off the hook.
#Be confident
#Positive vibes only.