I know that  the word 'impossible ' exists in the fools dictionary  as they say.  But if i think it through there is no dictionary for fools.  So basically it does exist.  Things can be IMPOSSIBLE sometimes.

There are times when things gets so hard that you end up losing hope automatically.  The possibility of you achieving what you want comes close to zero,  forcing you to give up. 

I know what you are thinking.  Is this girl seriously telling us it's okay to be losers?!

I know very well it's not good to give up and that we should always try no matter what.  But that doesn't mean we give in to so many things just so we could gain one HUGE thing.  Giving up on something or someone does not make us losers; sometimes it's what makes us humans.

So here's an example,  your mother is so sick and you are scared she is dying.  You put her on life support,  praying that she doesn't pass on.  You are so focused on keeping her alive for your own selfish reasons. 

HOW?!

You want her alive.  You don't wanna be an orphan.  You don't wanna be the girl whose mother just died.  So you fix her on a machine , counting FAKE breathes that she takes.  You whisper to her ears "MAMA YOU WILL BE FINE,  I PROMISE"

You keep on saying things and she can't even hear you.  You give promises you obviously can't keep.  You said those words to yourself because that's all that you have been wishing for. You do all this forgetting one vital thing.....

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun

Instead of all this,  you should be praying for her.. 
That if is this was her END , then He should make it easy for her. 
That He should grant her Shiffah If her time has not come to an end. 

So if you allow her to give up and stop forcing her to take medications that are obviously not helping her you will be doing the right thing... 
You won't be acting out of selfishness...
But out of love....

Am not sure if i have really made any sense but i believe if you look deep you will understand..

It's okay to give up on people.  There is no need to beat yourself up for something that is obviously not in your power.  If you have tried your best to make things right but it's not working then let go...

You might get hurt in the process and nothing is worth your peace of mind.  This ,dear ones,  is not being selfish.  It's just looking out for yourself.

This world is all about blame-games.  You want someone to blame and someone else wants to blame you.  It never ends...

So to be free....

Then

LET GO!!

As-salaam Alaykum...

Jazaakah Allahu kheir for reading this...

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