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Questions with Gigi

"You bet Gigi is coming to get you as soon as your Mommy says I'm finished. Yes I am."

Maya smiled watching her mother coo at her daughter as her and Josh finished getting the perfect setup.

"Yes I am."

"You're good to go."

Maya smiled at her husband giving him a quick kiss. "Okay, we are ready," she let her mother know as she walked over to take her daughter.

Katy pouted before kissing her granddaughter's forehead and handing the baby girl over to her mother.

Maya gently kissed her daughter's cheek and handed her over to her husband before going to sit down next to her mother. "I know I already told you but any question you aren't comfortable answer we can scrap it. I'll deleted it from the video as if it was never asked."

Katy nodded before turning her attention on the camera as her daughter did a quick intro to the video.

"You ready?"

"I'm ready," Katy smiled. She glanced at her daughter as her daughter introduced her and the video before getting into the questions.

"Okay I'm going to waste any time because we want to get through as many questions as we can before we miss Lynnie too much," Maya grinned, getting a chuckle out of Katy. "The first question-well actually it is questions and we are starting off with a bang is how do you feel about me getting married at such a young age and do you think it made me miss out things by marrying and becoming a mother young?"

"I do," Katy admitted, causing Maya to raise an eyebrow, but not surprised by the answered. "I think back on what I missed out on because I got married young and had Maya young but there is a difference between my marriage-"

"A big difference," Maya emphasized.

Katy nodded. "At first I was nervous and upset and I think I had a normal mother's reaction. Maya got married and quit college all in the same year but now I couldn't be more proud and happy for my daughter and Josh. You two made smart decisions even if you got lucky on some and I disagreed with a lot of them but you two have gotten yourselves well establish for your age. You have a nice apartment, you made a career for yourself, you have money in the bank, you have traveled and still kept up with friends which is something I never did or my ex-husband. I am nervous what could happen if this all of this goes away," she signals to the camera. "But I know Josh is also making a nice career for himself and both of you work hard. I can see their mindset is a lot different than what mine and my first husband's mindset was so I do think you missed out on things like being young and free to do what you want without having to worry about someone else but you made a great life for yourself that you love."

Maya gave her mom a small smile before getting a serious look and staring at her mother as she read the next question, "What do you really think of Josh? Do you two get along?"

Katy laughed, playfully pushing her daughter away making Maya break her seriousness. "I love Josh and we do get along great. He is like my son I never had. I think people got the wrong idea from your story time video and me being upset you got married. I was not upset about who she married. I've always loved Josh and loved the idea of my daughter ending up with him. I was upset about how she got married. It broke my heart seeing the marriage license and knowing she went behind our backs and got married. I pictured this huge wedding day for them in the future when they were older and both finished college and seeing they got married took away my dream but I have to accept their choice."

Maya nodded before reading the next question. "How has our relationship changed since I've had Lynnie?"

The older and younger women both thought about their answers, before the younger one spoke out first. "I think now I have a better understanding. I used to get so annoyed when she would bring up about the wedding I never had and blah blah blah or you know whatever it was that she dreamed of or wanted for me and now I catch myself doing the same for Lynnie. I start dreaming about her future and what her life is going to be like in the future and she is just a baby. I even find myself thinking of things like she can't even control like her looks. I so badly wanted her to have Josh's dark hair but her hair is getting more lighter and looks like it might even be blonde so I think I have the understanding of why you were upset with some of my decisions where as before I was all about it being my life."

Katy smiled at her daughter. "I don't think our relationship has changed much for me because it's still new. I think her becoming a mother did bring us closer together and I try to be there for her but also let her be the mother she wants to be," she answered, before Maya looked for the next question.

"Ohhh this is an interested question, do you think money has changed me?"

Katy remained quiet causing Maya laughed, knowing her mom didn't know how to answer the question. "It's okay," Maya eased. "Yes, because money changes people but I'm not some money monster or greedy person or anything like that."

"You're not," Katy agreed, "But you are more relax when it comes to money."

Maya thought about for a minute, "Yeah," she agreed. "For one of the first times in my life I don't have to worry about money or if the bills are getting paid. This is nothing against you," she said, looking over at her mother. "You worked hard as a single mom but we faced struggles."

"We did," Katy nodded.

"And life was hard when it came to money even after josh and I first got married we struggled with money but I don't have money struggles anymore. I'm at a place where Josh and I have money in the bank to where we can pay the next few months if something goes down which a lot of people can't say. We were able to do it during Josh's recovery. We rarely splurge which surprises people because I did get a lot of crap because I did splurge on Lynnie and got expensive items like her Barefoot Dreams blanket which I know it wasn't necessity to spend that much on a blanket but I wanted it and some of the clothing items and shoes I got her were a splurge and I know she isn't going to fit in them long but you have to keep in mind she doesn't have a nursery in our apartment so we splurge on things that we probably wouldn't have normally."

"And she is your first baby so if you want to splurge some it's okay."

"Yea," Maya nodded. "Next question. How do you feel about becoming a grandmother young?"

"I love it more than I thought I would love it," Katy laughed causing Maya to laugh. "I know she hasn't been here long but I can't imagine life without her."

"Same," Maya agreed. "She is so loved and I can't believe there was life before she existed."

Katy nodded, smiling.

Maya looked up from her phone, "I'm telling you this off camera a lot of people are asking about him who's name shall not be said and I think we should just get it over with so remember any question you aren't comfortable answering you don't have to."

"Okay."

"Now we are going to get to some of the difficult questions because there are quite a few questions about my biological dad," Maya look over at her mother and getting a nod. "I thought we would only answer a few because I don't want to open the door to this where it becomes a hot topic that is constantly asked about but I know we have new subscribers and with my mother here a lot of people have questions about our past with him and how we got to where we are with him today."

Katy nodded.

"One of the questions is how do we answer difficult questions about him to people?"

"I guess they are meaning about where he is or who he is?" Katy asked.

Maya nodded, "I think so and the answer is we don't," she shrugged, causing Katy to nod. "Most of the people in our lives know about our past with him and neither one of us have anything to do with him. He is my mom's ex-husband and my biological father but that's it. He isn't her husband or my dad anymore. He is the past for both of us."

Katy agreed, "Yeah, I've always tried to be open with Maya once she got old enough and I always let her know she can ask me anything and I've always told her that her relationship with her biological father is whatever she wants it to be. If she wants to get in touch with him and have a close relationship with him I would never stop her. I know he is probably a topic that is interesting for a lot of your viewers. I know a lot of people have similar backgrounds like you who can relate but every one of your stories are different and you shouldn't let how Maya's relationship with her bio dad guide yours," she addressed the camera.

"Yeah," Maya nodded, biting her lip.

"I just want to put that out there. Your relationship with an absent parent may end differently than how Maya and her biological dad did. If you feel the need to reach out then reach out. You need have to know what is best for you like Maya knows what is best for her."

Maya gave her mother a small smile before going to the next question. "Will your biological dad get to know Lynnie? And the answer right now as I am sitting here filming this today is absolutely one thousand percent not a chance in hell. No, he won't get to know her or ever meet her. I don't even know him so why would my daughter meet him? Or any of my other future children. He isn't their grandfather. He is a stranger to me and he is going to be a stranger to them."

Katy shrugged her shoulder, "I agree. He chose to not be in Maya's life for her to get to know him. We don't know what the future hold but right now he doesn't deserve to know her."

Maya nodded, strolling through questions. "A lot of people want to know do you regret not trying to fix mine and his relationship?"

Katy took in a deep breath before letting it out. "There was no fixing it on my part. I couldn't make him be a father to her and he took off."

Maya agreed. "Yeah, I don't blame my mom for his actions. If he wanted a relationship with me he should have reached out and tried to fix mine and his relationship. Not my mother. Someone asked do I ever regret not trying to reach out to my dad? I did reach out one time when I was around-I think thirteen," she looked over at her mom who nodded. "It didn't go well. I won't go into details but even after I reached out to him he didn't try again. He didn't try to come back into my life after seeing me. He gave up. He is a grown ass man and gave up on me. The last time I saw him wasn't too long ago when I randomly ran into him and guess what he has made no try in to get in contact again so there is that."

Katy grabbed her daughter's hand giving it a little squeeze.

"I'm thankful to my biological dad that I'm here because of him but that's it."

Katy nodded, giving her a small smile.

"How did your parents feel when they found out you were pregnant with me?"

Katy took in another deep breath. "Before I answer you have to remember where I was at in my life. I wasn't in a good place with my parents. They didn't like my husband at the time. They hated I got married. They hated I moved to New York so we didn't have a good relationship and I told my mother over the phone. She just hoped I was prepared to have a baby and wished me good luck."

"Let's get to some happier questions," Maya suggested.

Katy laughed, "I think that is a good idea."

"There is a few questions about Josh so I'm going to answer them quickly. People are wondering how Josh is doing and if he is fully recovered from the accident? Josh is great. He is actually studying right now."

"To take the bar," Katy chimed in.

"He is which is exciting. I'm so proud of him."

Katy smiled, nodding. "We are too."

"And yes he is thankfully fully recovered from the accident. Somebody different asked if things have changed between him and I since having Lynnie? Hmm, not really at least not a lot. I'll have to do a video with him. We both are just more tired than usual but maybe we can answer questions about being new parents. I'm not sure if this question is for me or for you but do you get along with my in-laws? I think they mean Amy and Alan."

"We do. They were actually like parents to my husband."

Maya nodded, agreeing. "Yeah, we all get along. We've had rough patches but nothing to the point where we don't get along. Hmmm...here is one of those where do you see yourself in the next couple of years?"

"I don't know," Katy laughed, shrugging. "I guess it depends on you and where you go. I guess I should be asking you where do you see yourself in the next couple of years? So I'll have an idea of where I'll be."

Maya's eyes went wide before she smiled, "That is going to depend a lot on Josh. We've mentioned he is getting ready to take his bar and then wherever he gets a job is where we are going to move so you'll have to stay tune and see where we end up."

"So location wise we don't know."

"Yep," Maya agreed. "Outside of location. I still hope I'm doing this. It is the good thing I can do this wherever we move to and I know over the pass year I've had a lot of ups and downs but I still love doing this and finally I hope to have another baby in the new few years. We are still adjusting to Lynnie so I don't know how soon we will have another baby but I hope to have another in like three years."

Katy looked over at her daughter surprised. "That is news to me. I can't believe you are already thinking about another baby after everything."

Maya shrugged. "I know but I do love being a mom and Josh and I have always said we were going to have at least two kind of close in age because we both know what it's like to be an only child at home. This comes from a new viewer, hi and welcome and she asked how long was I trying to conceive before getting pregnant? I know I have lots of new subscribers and viewers since having Lynnie, so some people are unfamiliar with us. The answer is I was not trying to get pregnant. I was sick and me and my husband still had fun and made a baby."

"Oh my god," Katy muttered under her breath, chuckling while she shook her head at her daughter.

"What? It's the truth," Maya shrugged, laughing. "We weren't trying to get pregnant. We were just trying to get him through law school and figure out where that is going to lead us and our next place is."

"Well it led you to a baby."

"It did," Maya chuckled. "This is a sweet question, this subscriber is asking how we are?"

"That is sweet," Katy awed. "I'm good, thanks for asking."

"I'm good. I still have my ups and downs and I'm still battling but I'm good."

Katy gave her daughter a smile, squeezing her hand.

"I think that is a good question to end on. I think both of us are wanting to go cuddle up with Lynnie. If your question didn't get answer don't worry we will do another one of these so please give this a thumbs up, subscribe if you haven't already and turn that bell on. I'll see you guys in the next video. Bye!"

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