I feel the reason why some people are emotionally messed up is due to the fact that we grow up putting are all into something or someone to make it work because we don't want history to paint over its self

We don't want history to open up old stitched wounds.

We wish to keep it close and turn the page. And then when it's going really good without putting so much stress into that something/someone and it's natural and healthy , we're scared.

Moral of the story stop hurting and breaking down others walls to satisfy your desires and needs. Analyze the situation then takea direction.

Maybe then we'll have less mentally hurt people whom have such beautiful pure sunlight hearts be tainted by their past and present situations that keeps hurting them.

Give a little love is that hard?