A/N: A really long time ago someone asked me about how to handle it when other girls are being a little...well...awful. I feel bad because I never made the chapter. So here goes! (Sorry I don't remember your username person)

Okay, so we all know that girls can be terrible.

There are girls out there who will try to tear you down brick by brick simply for the fun of it.

There are girls out there who will be complete and total jerks just to make themselves look better.

So what do you do if, say, your best friend gets this way?

First of all, they are not your best friend. Listen, I know it hurts when something happens to your best friend, especially when you seriously thought you could trust them. But what you need to do in these situations is follow these steps...which I hope or accurate.
*cough cough*
ANYWAY

1. Ask if they're okay.
-Remember that sometimes, when something bad happens in a person's personal life, they will take it out on the people closest to them.
-What you want to do is approach your friend very cautiously and point out that they usually don't act this way.
-You also want to mention that you truly care about them, and want them to be okay...not not okay. (HOLY DOUBLE NEGATIVE MIXED WITH AN MCR REFERENCE. I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD CRINGE OR SCREAM IN JOY.)
-Point out that you've got their back.

After you do this, one of two things could happen.
A. The person accepts your help.
B. The person screams at you and gets very violent and defensive.

So how do you officially handle these situations?

A
-Talk to your friend
-Identify the problem
-Attempt to help friend fix problem
-BAM. EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT IN THE END

B
-Apologize
-Explain to them that you're just trying to be a good friend
-Leave them alone

After you follow the steps under B, remember that you can always attempt, again, rather cautiously, to help your friend. If, by the third attempt, they are still refusing your help, you can either try to identify the problem on your own, or simply...let go.

I know that letting go is hard. But sometimes it's the best thing to do. If your friend is hurting you in any way...you need to talk to them. If they don't want to talk to you, you need to let them go. It's not worth tearing yourself apart for the sake of another person.

I know it's hard. I really really do. It hurts so much to let go. But trust me, in the end, it will be a decision you were glad you made.

Don't stress yourself out and fret over someone who doesn't want to be the object or cause of such feelings. Simply let go. Let go slowly, take your time, but let go.

Your world is not over. I promise. Because everyone has a fate. Yeah, you can change that fate...but you're still going to end up in the same general location that you were always meant to be in. Your fate was designed for you. And of course, you were given challenges...because the challenges make the destination worth it.

Some girls out there can be awful. But remember that everyone has a story. They may wound you, they may try to tear you down...and you know what? They're going no where.

If they're abusing you, physically or mentally, you need to let go. Get away from them. It's so much healthier for you. It will make your life easier.

Everything happens for a reason.

You need to remember the friends that are always there for you. You need to stay close to the friends that are ready to fangirl with you, to cry on your shoulder, to give you a shoulder to cry on.

Don't push your other friends away because one girl friend is being a jerk. Stick with the people that make you feel good, not the people that tear you apart.

Well

That was the best advice I could offer.

UHM.

ALSO.

THIS IS MY 100TH CHAPTER!

SO I'M TAKING THIS OPPORTUNITY TO THANK ALL OF YOU. REALLY, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH.

I don't know if any of your realize this, but I practically spend my nights reading through your sweet and hilarious comments. You all make me smile, and honestly, I will never be able to thank any of you enough.

So I will say it a million times after this, just as I said it a million times before.

Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you

I love all of you!

Peace from Sasslandia,
Rawr🐾