In the eye of a non-member :

Members are so cocky and mighty! God! Why can't they know that we here are trying very hard to trade things! They won't even say yes!

In the eye of a member :

Awe, the rare item Monday thing ended. I should've been on it first thing when I woke up. Oh look, a trade. Wait, an in-store item for my rare spiked wrist? Decline. Ah, I better see if people have a SPIKED COLLAR or HEADDRESS, so I can trade for it. Man, they declined. Oh well. I either have the option of going all cry baby over it and make a scene, spam them with trade requests, or I should JUST SHRUG IT OFF LIKE WHAT I'M SUPPOSED TO DO AND TRY AGAIN LATER.

What I'm saying is that non members complain about members, and members don't even notice them. They more pay attention to trade, and to get the items that are beta. Non members pay attention to member's trading list and ask for UNFAIR trade. But don't worry, I'm only saying the negative. I'm sure there's a lot of members and non members not like that.