Okay this is one of the biggest struggles that (I think) heteros AND homos both have.

The "is this a date?" Struggle.

Picture this. Someone who likes the gender you are is the gender of people you like, too. They ask if you want to hang out.

Is it a date??? Do you make a move? HOW DO you INTERPRET THIS?

Sure, people could say "it's not a date unless they ask you specifically on a date"
But once I was hanging out with my ex girlfriend Abby and before we started dating we hung out and then later in the relationship she was like "was that a date or not, I still don't know."
SHE SAID "do you want to hang out?"
SO APPARENTLY NOBODY ACTUALLY KNOWS IF ITS A DATE.

ugh.

Sincerely,

BE MORE SPECIFIC.