Hi loves,
Today I am going to talk about what we all have in common, "families".
Whenever we talk about families , our heart squeezes with love.
Family reminds us of
√ love
√ care
√ belongingness

And if ever you don't get such notions when you speak of your family , trust me something is wrong!
We come across a lot of stories or real life incidents where we see that one of the family members is the reason of unhappiness of the main characters.
Sorry to say , it's a case of reality too.
I have come across many students/ teenagers/ children who are fed up of the ways there parents treat them.

" You can't go there , it's late."
" Don't use phone too much."
" Don't watch this show."
"Don't do this and don't do that."
"How stupid you are, you don't even know how to do this?"
"You can't do that."
"Don't bother me with it."

And on and on and on.

May of us come across this don'ts and can'ts so much that it's become a part of our lives.
Including me.

Haven't you thought why they tell you this? Why they stop you from doing something , everything?
Why are they always busy in putting there noses in your works?
Doesn't they have nothing else to do?

THEY HAVE A LOT OF THINGS TO DO.
They are humans like me and you. And they have alot lot lot more responsibilities than us!
Office, home , children and so on.
Even then they take out time for us.

"But I dont need it. I am fine like I am."

You needed them when you were a year old and didn't knew how to use the loo.
You needed them to teach you how to walk.
You needed them when you were hungry and didn't knew what to eat.
God , you needed them at each and every step of your life!

"So what? Now I am big. And now I can take care of me."

Seriously can you?
Okay even if you can. Who will take care of them? They sacrificed there dreams, there fun , there sleeps to make you what you are today.

Set one thing start in your heads, even if you take a thousand births and you serve them all your life, YOU CANT PAY THEM FOR WHAT THEY DID FOR YOU.

Who doesn't have issues in there lives? But the solution is not to cut yourselves from them.

Most of the time it happens like we want to do something so Badly but we can't just because our parents don't allow us to.
Always happens with me.

What should we do then?

Shouting at them that you hate them and they are being ruthless on you. They don't want to see you happy and then shut yourself inside your room and cry your heart out?
No. You shouldn't do that. It will only make them feel the same thing which you are feeling. Hurt.

Go out, talk to them, ask them why they are not allowing you to go. May be there is a reason you are not aware of.
But never ever tell them , you hate them.
Because you don't, you can never.

You can get everything in life, friends , money, love , wife , children.
But YOU CAN NEVER GET YOUR PARENTS BACK.

Cherish each and every moment with them. One day when you will become a parent yourself, then you will come to know , what they felt when you treated them badly.

And now for the once who suffer pain/ abuse (emotional or physical) because of there parents, I am not telling you to sit and Suffer because you love them.
Go out of your way and Talk to them. If they don't listen. Talk to someone who you think can help you.
TALK. it's the most , most deadly weapon against abuse/ pain/ depression.
It gives you hope.
Hope to see the sun again. Hope to know that everything will be fine.

Sweethearts you are very very important. Don't waste your life by hurting yourself and bury the pain in your hearts.
Dig it out and share.Finish it from there.
You will feel light and you will feel happy!!

I hope you all are going to think about it, what I have said in here.
Think and Talk.
Thank you.