Don't tell the little girl her laugh sounds funny because she'll spend the majority of her childhood laughing without sound to not be laughed at.

Don't tell the teenage girl she's fat because she'll have days where she can't wear certain shirts because all she sees is her bulge.

Don't point out to the teenage girl how much body hair she has because believe me she knows and is self conscious enough.

Don't tell the little girl her hair looks terrible unless she's done nothing to it because she'll spend an hour on it as a teen and still think it looks terrible.

Don't tell the aspiring singer that you think her vocal part placement is wrong because her voice may be the only thing she has confidence in.

Don't tell the girl with severe anxiety and depression that she's just doing it for attention because then she's scared to get help because she'll look stupid and INCREDIBLY selfish if she's wrong.

Just don't.