I decided to take control of the situation.
(Note, he got his phone stolen)
I texted his best friend to see if they were together. They weren't but I told his best friend to tell him I had to give him something.
What I'm going to give him is a small note, similar to the ones he used to give me, asking if he even likes me.
I know it might not be the best way to handle this but it's what I'm doing and it's getting done.
I'm telling him.