Hi kinkies! How are you?
I mean...truly, deep inside your heart, how are you?

I've been noticing that lot of you have problems with loving yourselves or low self esteem, but it's completely understandable.

We live in a society that keep shooting beauty and life standards on our faces since we born.
It's the magazines, the TV shows, movies, bla bla bla. We grow up forgetting that we actually loved ourselves when we were really young.

We are forced to think theres only one way to be happy: Be thin, have a "perfect" skin, be sweet and always blame ourselves - ironically saying-. And that's why we start to compare ourselves with others.

Kinkies, that's not how it works.

Unnie is turning 28 soon and I can say, I've been there. I'm far from being super experienced, I'm always learning, but, there's one thing I'd like to tell to all of you.

There's no perfection.

No body is 100% happy, even that you're rich, thin, good skin and "humble" - that's irony-

Later when we start to age, we understand that our appearance is the last thing that will really matters.
What really matters is what is INSIDE.

Have you noticed that you have qualities? Did you look inside and searched for them?

Have you paid attention to how sweet and comprehensive you are with others but not with you?

Have you stopped to think the best moments you had is saved INSIDE your head and not on that post on Instagram?

Life is more than just having a good body or a beautiful face. Life is about falling, learning and getting up.

Don't be so harsh on yourself. It's okay to do something about that part of your body you don't really like, but your life can't stop because you gained weight or have some acne.

Try to understand your fears, work and learn with them. Build up your self love, allow yourself to do mistakes.

Remember that if you failed in school, you still can learn with it and make it better next time, the tests doesn't define you.

Also your body doesn't define you. You're so much more than just your body, you have feelings, memories, dreams and a WHOLE LIFE.

Promise unnie you'll try to be more kind to yourself this next year, will recognize your mistakes and work on them.

Don't compare yourself, they didn't live your life, why would you be the same?

Love yourself like you love people around you.

And if you don't love anyone around you....just love yourself like you should!

Remember I'm ALWAYS here for you, talk to me!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year for us!!!