I've noticed some things in ouran.
Well, now that I can actually fucking understand English better than before and I actually pay attention to the anime

Remember when tamaki said she's a girl she should fight guys like that,
He's trying to say in there is that girls shouldn't fight guys especially when they're not strong or something something.
That's why later that night, kyoya pretended that he will rape her so she can understand that she's a girl which means she's very weak, she can't beat boys that's why when something happens, she should just call them.

And second, I didn't realize that tamaki doesn't support lesbians either, he said what is the meaning of girl's love, if that is allowed then why did God made Adam and Eve . Or maybe it's just because tamaki doesn't want haruhi to go to those girls