Start booing; stop hiding :3

Story teller is here giggles jane i am eating your ping XD. Mother nature has been cheeky lately to me giving lessons after lessons huffs not like i am complaining. I want to share a thing. Its from my life. So one day my mom was hanging out with her friends. She got off distressed. She was in sus mode. She called me and asked about a certain girl (one of her friend's daughter). I remember when I was around 6 or 7 grade in tuition. She was in 12th grade. We used to study together. After it cycle of things she had her degrees and some other stuff and recently she got married. Mom later on explained that the mom of that girl was boasting off that all of her kids are settled. She married her daughter off at the age of 23. Mom said when i heard i turned to her in surprise because thats how old you are. Mom was amazed at the fact how shamelessly she lied. In Asians the stereotypical max age to marry is in early 20s.  After it she is old too old. Its not like we are mad. We are happy that girl is happy. But here the pressing point is that why we actually have to stick so much to these stupid things. Why in show off they have to lie to hide the fact that alright she didnt make it at the stereotypical age. Thats questionable. Mom settled down that day with a lesson that not everything that glitters is gold. Yes yes i had to hear plenty of stuff. Days after she took a turn on me. I am marrying you off as soon as you graduate. We will take care of kids. You just say yes to marriage and after it do whatever you want. I was like no well thats totally different thing. A child is a brand that sells with badges of stereotypes; more glam mean more molds they fit in.

Now rush back not to present but to childhood. We all come across once in a while that one brand sick person who will prolly gonna step on you even if you are standing between their favorite article on a black friday. We may backbite about craze sometime but who doesnt like glam. In general they will be one who are gonna earn more praise. Thats why most brands are working today. We are so engrossed to portray a perfect life in lies and showing off. We have no respect for person who might be standing infront of us in simple clothes. Some thanks to street psychologists who made this a clinche habit to judge people on the basis of clothes. When clothes can tell about people but its really dangerous approach to do so. We love to sit with one who dress well and who are prestigious. Lesser than it is equal to insult. This approach is so deeply fixed in our mind. We cant shed this pattern. The implicit attribute of women being nurturer and women being dependent. The illusory correlation which our predictive brain has saved i question why cant we shed it? Why its so hard to boo at them. Those who sow the seed of such prejudice. In our brain we know its wrong but we wouldnt dare to speak against it. Because we are so alright with the set patterns and boundary less life. We hold no audacity that whether or not if this action will be alright for the person. We are so inclined to fulfill that implicit attribute that has been set.  We all cry the world is this that unfair stuff continuously rambling. The food to thought is that how many can cut the glam of hanging out with a friend who got a branded backup for a friend who has been using his backup since last year. Make a small attempt to shake that illusory correlation. We digest most and best from our eyes and ears.

If we can shift preservative in subconsciousness i believe the world would be lesser painful. I dont dictate to be a fireball just dont give attention and validation to showoffs in nut. So when you nip the evil in bud it wouldnt bloom into bigger ones. Respect is earned. So start by respecting yourself and people; treat humans as humans without seeing brand label. Thank you for reading.