The worst kind of thing mean people will throw at your way is the poison of slut shaming. I hope you all are aware of it. You get harassed or bullied the perfect solution society offers is silence or slut shaming. The reason is not your weakness but it's they are coward to speak. What if they turn towards us. Ikr sucks. I am breaking down few things/hacks when you experience it or find someone struggling with it. Go with them.1. First of all ground yourself.2. If there isnt a freezing mechanism invading in ask the accuser. "Will you do the same if you or your sister would be in this mess?"3. Retrieve into your safe space4. Dont throw away your support circle 5. You may not have right words to explain it. I understand first mind goes numb and after it insult settles in. Be gentle with yourself 6. As I said you dont have to isolate yourself and for expression try drawing or story or even mind mapping. 7. I am sorry that it happened to you. Trust me it's wrong even coming from your close relations.8. You are valid. People arent god to comment on your body. Your body is perfect9. At suck instances it's okay to lean on loved ones and cry. You dont have to lower your head. Walk in public not every person looking at you isnt a wolf.10. Indulge in self care and strengthen your boundaries.Hope this helps. I love you all. You guys are beautiful and lovely souls.