VK headcanons on when he is showing forms of affection— because I can understand if it's hard to tell when he's being a jerk and when he is genuinely trying to be affectionate-

• When kissing you on the lips- or any upper part of you body that is above your collar bone- he will instinctively hold/grab onto your neck with one of his hands. It won't be a tight grip, but it isn't super loose either. Though if you try to take his hand off of your neck, he will tighten his grip. It's his way of showing he is in control—. Now I know you guys are thinking, "how is him being in control showing affection-?" Shut up- .... I'm sorry that was rude- he has his own special ways of showing affection, this is one of them. Take it or leave it.

• if you are lucky enough, then sometimes he'll let you be in his bed with him- ✨ t r u s t ✨

• If you are laying down with him, next to him, or on top of him, he won't let you get up unless he believes that your reason for getting up is 'good enough', if it's not then he will wrap his arms around you and keep you where you are.