Sooo this is a tag both me and Sammi are doing and seeing if our answers match up. she had the idea and it sounded like fun soooo

What do you think people need to know about each other before they get married?
How they act when they're upset with something you've done.

What makes you very sentimental?
Idk lol

What do I do that makes you smile?
Literally every fucking thing she does like wtf she's so cute I love her so much. But especially being called cute nicknames makes me blush-as she's seen many times on video chat lmao

What is the best or worst trait you inherited from your parents?
Uhhh I think I'm pretty smart so that's something nice I've inherited lol

What is your funniest memory of our dates?
(We're considering video chatting "dates" since unfortunately we're too far apart to go on actual dates 😢 )
Sammi saying she was going to reverse Pixar her lamp bc it wouldn't stop turning off lol

Who was your first crush and why?
Oof um I had a lot of crushes on boys in elementary school lol

What three things do you want to be remembered for?
I'd like to be remember as a kind, smart person who wrote great books

Is there a dream you've always had?
I've always wanted to work with animals, and also to be a writer

What is something you've always wanted to do, but are scared to?
Uhhh drive 8 hours to see her? I'm not an awesome driver-

What gives you butterflies?
Oh my god so we're video chatting as we write these and before we started she called me "my pumpkin" and i swear I was so flustered and I literally brought up butterflies so this question is very funny-

What do you consider most romantic?
Geez idk. I mean, a lot of things that we do are very cheesy and romantic? Calling each other sweet nicknames, I try to send her nice good morning texts when I can. Little things like that are the best to me.

What motivates you most in life?
Uhhh I mean, I try to do what I can to improve my life and health I guess? So doing things that make me happy just because they make me happy.

What things do you consider to be relationship deal breakers?
If the person is abusive. Otherwise I believe most things can be talked about and an agreement can be reached. Then other things that some people consider to be big deals I just..... don't. As long as you're both making each other happy rather than draining each other I think the relationship is fine.

Do you think arguing is part of a relationship?
No. I think you should be able to talk things out calmly when you aren't feeling extremely angry about things-otherwise you never reach a proper compromise and you just end up making each other feel bad.

If we were to raise children, what are the most important things you would want them to learn?
I just want to raise my potential kids to know they can do whatever they want and that their parents will always be right there to support them. Also I'd obviously want to raise them to be kind and understanding, but also knowing the boundaries of where to be understanding and when someone just isn't good for them.

How would you describe our relationship?
Absolutely fucking perfect

How would your partner describe you?
Oof idk, probably as cute and dorky

Do you consider yourself a spiritual person? How?
Not at all. Im just not religious or anything

If you made a bucket list for us, what would you add to it?
Uhhhh it'd be awesome to get to travel cool places with my girlfriend but like. Just getting to be with her in any way is enough for me.

How has our relationship changed since we started dating?
Idk? We've gotten better at talking emotions-or I guess. I have. She was better at that than me, and still is, but yeah. We've gotten better at saying that we love each other, and telling each other about things that are bothering us.

What do I do that comforts you the most?
Just? Being there always? Always offering to help with whatever she can, reminding me I can go to her if I need anything. She even asks me when I'm not upset what else she can do to help when I am-like, asking me what she can do for dysphoric days. I just really really appreciate her. She's amazing.

In what ways are you most similar to me?
We're both absolute fuckin nerds lmao

What makes you feel discouraged?
Anytime something I'm proud of gets swept to the side by people. Which doesn't happen with her, because she's always there to get excited with me when I'm happy about something.

What is a significant event that has changed you?
We also talked about this while video chatting tonight. Being in an abusive relationship before as well as many of terrible friendships has led to me having some insecurities over even just being friends with someone, so being in a relationship again is hard too. But I don't worry about that too much now since she's ten billion times better than any previous people I've know, and treats me far better than they did. I'm getting better at being less insecure, slowly.

If your life was a movie, which celebrity would play you?
Oh my god could Tom Holland play me? I wanna be as hot as Tom Holland. He's also the only celebrity I really like lmao, so yeah I'd love if it were him.

Annyyywaayyss, that's the end of the relationship tag! Now, me and Sammi decided to post ours at the same time so our answers wouldn't be changed by whatever each other put, so we're both uploading them at the same time. Hope you enjoyed reading this, I'm gonna go check hers out now lol. Bye-Bob