Explanation

Alright. Some people (aka my friend here and irl..... -Night-Sky-Wielder-, I'm looking at you) have asked how it is to be in a relationship. And I feel like people should know too. Now, here's my take on it.
You see, in a relationship, the love must be equal. Not one sided and one less than the other. Trust me. I've lied about it many times over. Before. Also, you see, be patient and find the right person. If you aren't, it's most likely going to be the worst decision ever... 
Don't base the relationship on JUST intimacy... It'll get boring. Also you and your partner should have things in common. You know. Things to share with each other and talk about. Not just looking a each other and being bored. Your partner should be someone you never get tired or bored off even after years. You should always have something to talk about.
Trust is also very essential in relationships. No trust, be prepared for a short term relationship. Learn to trust your partner. Honestly, trust is very important in life too. A relationship without trust is dead.
Be there when needed. Or be there anyway. (I'm feeling like a total hypocrite but hey, we're human right? Well, I'm a shaman. But still human). Don't leave each other hanging. Unless you have a pretty understandable, believable and reasonable excuse- reason. That's a better word.
It could be quite stressful sometimes. I admit that. Even though there are sometimes when you pretty much think, "Nope... Can't take this..... Gotta end it... It has to end.... Too boring.... Barely nothing to do....." (You may be thinking, "Dude.... That's a little too specific...." But I say unto you, "Thou art very observant... For this thought hath moved across mine mind time without number, but here I stand. Still the relationship standeth. Not sure for how long though." Experience truly is the best teacher folks. Take it from me.) But if you have the slightest amount of care, you'd keep the going for their sake. (Or to avoid yourself and them getting hurt in the long run, you just come right out and say, "It's not you, it's me.... Sorry but it's over.... Maybe we could still be friends but not dating...." Or if you feel like being a prick, "I'm done. It's over. We're through. Can't stand it anymore," then casually walk off a free person. Either of the approaches get across your message. One is just... A tad less meaner than other). Honestly, I may advice the one in the bracket more. Hurts less for you. May or may not hurt more for the other person. But anyhow.... That's basically my view on relationship. It's a waste of time if you pick the wrong person. But a blessing if you picked right.

-Yoh Asakura,
(Man.... I should really become a counsellor if I continue like this....)

(Btw... I'm totally leaving till next month. So like miss you guys and stuff.)

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