demisexual or graysexual

I don't know if I'm demisexual or graysexual.
I know I'm somewhere in between sexual and asexual.
also I feel like demisexual is to strict, graysexual is so much more broad and I feel more comfortable with it.
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demisexual//

Demisexuals are characterized by a lack of sexual attraction toward any person unless they become deeply emotionally or romantically connected with a specific person or persons. The level of connection it takes for sexual desire to form is dependent on how close the relationship is rather than initial attraction. It is an orientation that is not chosen.

Demisexuality does not refer to the active restraint or repression of sexual desires or actions.

Demi- is a prefix meaning half. This is used to mean halfway between sexual and asexual. The term originated in the asexual community, specifically within the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN).

graysexual//

  adj: sometimes having sexual attraction and/or feelings, but usually not. generally asexual but perhaps capable of sexual desire under certain conditions, eg love or romance.

noun: person who identifies as graysexual

Whereas sexual orientation exists along a continuum of heterosexual, bisexual and homosexual, sex drive also exists along a continuum. Some people (highly sexual) desire to have sex with anyone they can; some people (strictly asexual) have no sexual desires; graysexuals are predominantly asexual but capable of manifesting sexual desires under specific circumstances. This is not to be confused with an asexual that is satisfying a partner's sexual desires despite lacking sexual desire of their own.

also I know that I'm only young and I don't need to identify as something, but when k heard the term demisexual I felt so content, like that is so perfect. I didn't know there was an in between of sexual and asexual.
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pls don't get mad at me for not knowing and stuff, it's just a little piece of me just like my favorite colors or favorite song.

tell me what you think pls.
-e.t.

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