I saw a TikTok it went like:

Girl: I like girls who like girls

Guy: I like girls who like girls too (with a weird smirk and looking the girl up and down)

Girl: 😬 (puts hand over cup and walks off)

People who fetishize lesbian woman (usually MEN) make me feel gross
Lesbians are woman who don't like dude

But for bi people I know that if some dude came up to me and said "I like girls who like girls" to me without even knowing me I'd feel uncomfy

Also those same people who fetishize lesbians are the ones who hate gay guys and say "it's gross"