My Dad and Guilt-Tripping

Ok, this is a rant. I know, I shouldn't be ranting about my dad, BUT THIS HAS SERIOUSLY GONE TOO FAR.

What happened:

Me: *Goes into toilet and finds his wet towels in the bathroom and I am supposed to take a shower (he showered before me)*

Me: Hey dad, you should um, clean up after yourself after you shower... It's a bit inconvenient for the other people's usage of the toilet.

Dad: And this was his response: I wake you up every morning, and you can't help me do such a simple thing? Every day I care for you and now you hate me? Who are you? Who am I to you? Are you my daughter? Oh so I am not your father to you? Maybe I should go live where our backup apartment is? Oh you really want me to do that?

Me: ... I never said that.

Dad: *starts rambling again*

LIKE WHAT EVEN! I NEVER SAID ANY OF THOSE WORDS SO STAHP PUTTING THEM IN MY MOUTH.

AND STOP GUILT-TRIPPING ME.

For those of you who don't know what guilt-tripping is, my dad's response is an example.

It's basically saying something to make someone else feel guilty. Or overloading someone with guilt.

LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL BLAZIES.

I never said anything about oving, I never said anything about being his daughter, I never said ANYTHING ABOUT ANYTHING.

And there he goes, creating a racket and dumping guilt on me.

I was pissed even before I found the towels, and now I'm just in the mood of UUUUUUUGH. Probably PMS.

But still! What he said had nothing to do with the towels and it was nothing to do with anything.

And this hasn't been the first time. THIS IS LIKE THE 573818364919173 TIME OUTTA INFINITY TIMES.

ITS LIKE EVERYTHING I SAY HE GETS OFFENDED AT, AND EVERY SINGLE TIME, HE BRINGS UP THAT SAME TOPIC.

Yes, it is that one, the "who am i to u" topic. EVEN THOUGH IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE CONVO.

RIGHT NOW I JUST wANNA SCREEEEEEEAM OF FRUSTRATION.

He gets offended when I ask why cant he do something by himself, but then he tells me that.

Well that sentence was confusing. Lemme paraphrase it.

When he asks me to get him something and I say "do it urself" he gets offended. BUTTTTTT. When I ask him to get me something, he says "NO", and "get it yourself" AND UNLIKE HIM, I DONT GET MAD.

JUST WOW. WOOOOOOOOW.

I am actually afraid that if I ask him about it, he would launch into that "who am i to u" convo again. BUT IDC. IM STILL DOING IT.

OK WHATEVER BYE, RANT DONE, THX FOR WASTING UR TIME, YOU CAN ALL GO NOW.

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