How to spot a leech

How to spot a leech aka a toxic fake friend/friends

1. Is all the do demanding stuff from you or requesting non stop that you make stuff for them and give stuff to them?

Yes? Then your friend is pretty sus my dude

No? Well good check out the other signs to be sure

2. Is it whenever you deny their requests or demands, they get upset or sad and make you feel guilty?

If you had the first two then I suggest you move the fuck away from your "friend"

If you had only #2 then your friend is still sus in my book but they arent that bad

If no to both then good your friend isnt toxic and your safe so far

3. Do they make a big deal out of you not doing what they asked? Calling you names or doing something that they know will make you feel guilty?

Yes to all 3? Come sit by me and we can talk through experiences with this and you get a hug possibly

Yes to only this? Well again your friend is sus to me, watch out is my advice

No to all of these? Well then your good

4. This tends to be a specific kind of leech who tends to want to invade personal life or at least any form of creativity you express as a way to get attention. These tend to be very annoying and personally I want to scream at people like this-

If they do all 4 of these things then for your mental and emotional health I suggest you block them or don't talk to them anymore. If you wish to be kind about this tell them you simply don't wish to be friends anymore to spare their feelings then ask kindly that they never talk to you again or at least unfollow you on any social media you have.

If none of these things then you sir/mam/nonbinary pal have a good friend from what I can see at least for a little bit. They seem safe

If yes too 4 then they might not they are showing signs of being a leech and dont know better. It's best you tell them kindly or ask them why they do this, or just teach them to not do that.

This could be just me and that's weird but it annoys me when I see someone constantly demanding art of their ocs and getting mad later when their oc is rejected or turned down.

(This is actually a drama issue that happens and I felt annoyed because of this issue so I felt like making this)

(Yes I have someone who annoys me greatly this way and they dont know so I'm going to inform them kindly today) (or at least try to find their reason)

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