And when I have an opinion I WILL state it. Yet, for some reason everyone seems to think I'm arguing when I do. I don't know why this is, but it happens a lot. I guess because when I do state my case I don't do it with flowery words, I do it straight out and sort of in your face, so maybe it comes off as being fighting words.

I honestly don't mean for it to be that way, it is simply how I am, I don't pull any punches. I state things clearly and honestly. You need to take me with a grain of salt sometimes. I value the opinions of others and I want to hear them. I listen to all sides and I don't fault anyone for what they believe, everyone is entitled to have thier own opinions and beliefs. 

That won't stop me from stating my side though. I will debate it and do it as strongly as I feel I need to do it. 

But can everyone please stop accusing me of arguing? I'd appreciate it. Thanks!