ok so i just realized that we havent posted much about body positivity

body positivity is reallY importanT

its so so so important that you love your body and feel comfortable in your own skin

so this is basically just a hUgE chapter about body positivity

i hope you all enjoy :^))

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features

take a moment to think about a physical feature you like about yourself

think about why you like it about yourself

for me, its my thighs bc i think theyre rlly chubby and cute

now take a moment to think about a feature you dont like about yourself

why dont you like it?

now think about why you do like it

for me, its my stomach bc its kinda big and it makes me feel uncomfortable in some clothes but i like it bc it fits my shape well

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confidence and clothes

so some people seem to think that confidence is bad???

or that when you feel confident or cute or anything, youre being selfish or gross??

which is definitely not true !

thats confidence ^

if anyone has told you being confident is bad, i g n o r e  t h e m

being confident is such a great thing

whats songs make you feel confident ? comment them !

most people have an outfit or two that they feel really confident and good in

whats yours ?

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okay onto another topic,

if you think you look good in short shorts, wear them, if you like skinny jeans, wear them, if you feel good in band tees, wear them, if you like wearing crop tops, wear them !!

other people shouldnt influence what you wear

if you feel good in whatever you may be wearing, thats great!

if other people dont like it, they can fuck off and mind their own business bc its your body and you can wear whatever you want

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the origin of body negativity

most, if not all, people have thought "wow i wish i was as pretty as them" or "wow theyre so skinny" or "i wish i could be like them"

thats how we begin to compare ourselves and when we begin to dislike our bodies

try not to compare yourself to others, youre you!

everyone has different body shapes and different features, its not fair to compare yourself to others when everyone has a different shape

so whether youre 90 lbs, 130 lbs, or 200 lbs as long as youre happy and healthy, theres nothing wrong with not being the "perfect size"

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alright thats basically all i wanted to say :)

-carissa ♡ trippingeyes-

dont forget to love yourself