What if I choose not to be the woman the society expects me to be?

I didn't choose to be unmarried at this age, God didn't want me to, that I can assure; but it is my choice not to be in a relationship now. I choose to be single, to enjoy this season what society thinks to be bleak and sad...to wait for myself if I'm even ready to be someone's wife or mother.

I'm not just speaking for myself, I'm speaking for women out there who choose to be happy with or without a man...to all women who choose to delay marriage or have children even if everybody thinks it's the right time, because they want themselves to be the love of their lives first. To those women who break the chains of society's demand to settle and take pleasure in God's perfect time for everything; to those who did not enter into a relationship right after a painful one, to those who choose to be single mothers even it's hard. To all the women who keep loving themselves even if others have terribly showed us we aren't lovable enough.

Cheers to all women out there who are strong and have found happiness despite the fact that life isn't always sweet like the flowers and chocolates on Valentines.

#thoughtstoponder

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