118 | unfollow + muting
Scandalous title?
A bit.
Hi, It's Violet. Yesterday some not so cool things happened when I posted the previous chapter. I called Nia Jax untalented, and that set some people's panties on fire.
Some of you were upset, and respectfully let me know. I respectfully replied, because if you do as well, it's not hard to reciprocate the good behavior.
I know that what I said was harsh, and I even disclaimed that in the chapter. I don't think Nia is completely untalented.
I don't even think she's untalented. She's super green for sure, but hey, she's in the freaking WWE!
One way or another, I am sure that she is trying to improve her skills while I sit at home and blabber about her living the dream.
But Violet, why don't you just put that instead of saying she's untalented? This is a rant book. 50% of the time, I am overly exaggerating my dislike for someone because it's partly sarcasm, and as disclaimed in the book's description, I'm a very in the moment type of rage person.
So do I like Nia Jax? No.
That said, I wish her no ill. I actually love who she is outside her character. Actually, I know her gimmick could be killer if more improved.
SECOND THING I want to point out is the comments I had to delete this morning. There was exactly eight comments that I deleted because I couldn't stand them (duh).
The first one was a comment from a user that was desperately trying to get me to like Nia. That I needed to respect her and give her merit.
I got a similar comment made about Paige. That one definitely surprised me because I only mentioned Paige once, and it wasn't even anything bad. I just said I don't like her, which is true. I then said her Fallaway Slam was cool as shit.
So yeah, it was confusing.
As far as merit goes, I will always give merit to anyone that steps inside a ring. So I think Nia's wrestling sucks, but hey, she is still taking the bump so good on her. Do I think it sucks? Yeah, but she took the bump.
This said, I urge people: don't try to change my mind because I'm not trying to change your mind about anything.
If you like Paige, good for fucking you. If you like Nia, hip hip, hooray! I'm not going to hold it against you. You like whoever you like and be damn proud of it.
I love the shit out of CM Punk, and if anyone talks shit about him, you won't see me commenting on someone's rant book about how great he actually is because the bottom line is, if you dislike someone ... you're most likely going to keep disliking them.
Trying to get someone to "understand" a point in a rant post they just made that entirely differs with yours is a little senile and egotistical.
It's like if someone said, ❝I'm allergic to mustard❞ and Immediately after I told you to try mustard because I love it and it's really good.
JUST NO!
Don't shove your loved ones down people's throats. What a great concept, yeah?
( EXCEPTION: You can love and shit on anyone as much as you want as long as it's in your profile and your works. If you go spread that elsewhere, well then, prepare to be shot. But if it's your wall / book and people give you shit, just know that you're in your territory).
Kind of goes hand in hand with promoting, you know? Shamelessly promote your works on your accounts all you want, just don't go smearing it onto other's people's walls a few times every day.
THIRD THING, the other seven comments that I had to delete ... those irritated me even more.
Now, I've noticed these catch phrases / lingo popping up on my comments lately, and I will straight up call them out as NOT that.
I ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY HATE THE WORDS ❝TEA❞, ❝SHADE❞, ❝SIPPIN ON TEA❞
Like, If I just said I didn't like Nia Jax and someone commented, ❝shade❞ ... dear jebus I will unfollow you.
I will unfollow you if I see that it's only you trying to stir shit, and believe me, 90% of the time that people comment are, they are trying to brew a shit storm of drama.
If I say ❝I don't like Alberto Del Rio cause he's practically dating a child, a chick who is closer to being underage than his age❞ It's not shade / shady.
I AM DIRECTLY TELLING YOU WHAT I THINK! I AM NOT SIPPING ON TEA EITHER, WHATEVER THE FUCK THAT MEANS. MY WORDS ARE IN ENGLISH AND IF YOU CAN WRITE SHADE AND TEA, THEN YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT MY MESSAGE IS CLEAR TO UNDERSTAND.
Those seven comments were exchanged between three people trying to say that I was talking shit about Nia. I scratched my head and thought, ❝NO FUCKING SHIT!❞
If you use these words just to INSTIGATE drama, I will unfollow you, and then mute you.
I don't need that kind of bullshit in my book. I don't need immature pricks making others feel so uncomfortable about expressing their opinions.
Again, if you're opinion is not in line with mine, go ahead! I don't mind. Just don't expect to change my mind. Don't hold anything against me, and I won't hold anything against you.
Don't attack others for not liking your favorites. If false information is spread, then yeah, let them know why they're wrong and move along.
But back to those words, If you use them jokingly, okay, fine, whatever. I know I have. Again, just don't use them to start drama. It's honestly so fucking petty, and I hate pettiness.
About a year ago I remember Wattpad had these really cool stats where we could see where our readers came from, and the age group / gender group.
I'm not sure if it's still around, but I remember that my audience was divided in ages. Half were around the 13-18 age group, and the rest were 18-25 I think.
What I'm trying to say is that in this book:
I WILL NOT ALLOW IMMATURE 13 YEAR OLD USERS STOMP ON ADULT USERS.
I WILL NOT ALLOW IMMATURE ADULT USERS TO STOMP ON MERE TEENAGERS.
As I've said I don't know how many times already, I do not write out my opinions for anyone's approval. If you agree, hooray. We're like minded. If we don't, that's also fine.
If you wish to disapprove, always do it with the good intention of not trying to change someone's mind.
Okay?
I felt the need to get all of this out of my chest because It did bother me to see those comments. I don't want to be associated with that kind of behavior.
This is not a direct jab at anyone, it's simply a reporting of shit I saw yesterday that I did not like whatsoever.
As I've mentioned on my wall, I might be taking a break. If that does happen, I probably won't be back till Christmas time and I don't wish to log on to see this book or anything related to me filled with pettiness.
I want this book to be the place where you can come and say whatever the fuck you want, so long as it's respectful (of course).
Well, that's my rant for the day.
Thank you to the mature people who messaged me if I made them upset. Thank you if what I said isn't something you agreed on, but knew I didn't mean it as an attack on the person itself or anyone who likes that person.
Although I may not always comment back, I do monitor what is posted on my wall or works because I don't want anything of that petty caliber on here.
Until then,
x.
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