not pointed !!

okay so this is basically the entire concepts of sluts or whores or whatever. 

first thing, i will say that i do not support the usage of slut/whore as an actual insult towards a girl because it makes men think that they can say it too, which they can't, most of the time. there are exceptions--there's always exceptions, to almost everything. if it's as a joke and the other person is okay with it, then it's okay! it's fine. i'm fine with that. i call my close friends sluts and they call me a slut right back. that's okay. 

really, i just don't like the idea of girl v girl, yk what i mean? like sure they're pretty and blonde and skinny, but that doesn't make them sluts! maybe they're genuinely nice people. maybe they have depression and anxiety and all that and are just better at hiding it. maybe they have feelings. 

just a little bit annoyed by people right now, because i thought it was a universal thing to be a girl's girl--sure, she's a bitch, but that doesn't mean it's okay to enforce incredibly harmful stereotypes such as sluts or whores. 

kind of like how if you've got beef with someone who uses they/them pronouns or anything else other than what you might originally assume, you'd still use their correct pronouns because sure, you hate the person, but misusing their pronouns just to spite them is insulting to all of the LGBTQIA+ community, not just that individual person. it makes other people think they can do it, too. leading by example is a real thing, and can be a really harmful thing, too. 

i will say: there are other words you can use. for example, slut can be harmful and honestly so can bitch, but it's better. use attention whore instead of just plain whore. use douche or dick instead of manwhore. 

again, it's okay as a joke, but otherwise, be a girl's girl! it's better for the entire female population, i promise.