If you're a guy then skip this.

Not for guys.....I repeat

I'm sure you're girl so here we go.......

My fellow girls I'm here to talk to you about how we behave after breakups.

I mean in a situation when it's the guy that broke things off...

When a guy breaks up with a girl nowadays you will start seeing breakup quotes on their social media platforms some will post stuffs like 'you will never find someone like me'.

Excuse me!! The guy didn't say he was looking for someone like you so give it a rest.

Breakup is normal. It's just two people looking for their soulmates and once one of them finds out that he/she isn't in love with the other it's OK and even advisable to breakup.

It is advisable because it's not smart to be in a relationship with no love.

So when a guy breaks up with you even though you still love him just accept it and move on.

I know it's always hard to move on and trust me it's OK to cry.

Crying does not mean you're weak it only means you're letting out buried emotions out.

It's sometimes good to cry....the numbness after crying is worth it sometimes.

Some girls even go as far as dress up and look very good just so the guy will see you've moved on and feel bad.

Look almost every one uses this strategy so when you use it what the guy thinks is that you're dressing up so he'd come back thus giving him the wrong impression.

When he breaks up with you you can cry when no one is there then continue with your normal life. Do stuffs that take your mind off it.

Some go as far as blocking the guys on social media stuff. It's a childish act really.

And even when he comes back give him a hard time.

Make him beg and beg for weeks even months so he'd know you're not someone to toy with.

But when he breaks up with you and he comes back and you welcome him with open hands trust me he's gonna do it again.

Sometimes it's smart to play hard to get....