two of my best friends have been together for more than three years and they didn't tell me wow

i don't know if it's justified for me to feel this betrayed and cheated but somehow i do and i'm actually really mad

first of all they can tell a random fucking girl they are together just because she asked

but they don't think it's important for me to know ?????

and you know what their defence is ???????

"it was obvious we thought you'd figure it out,,"

um ????? excuse me ??????

honestly i don't even know why i'm pissed it's not like i'm not happy for them

i just feel really betrayed and i hate it

the worst part is that i'm supposed to go for comic con with them in a few days and i was so fucking excited but now i'm just ???? this is why life can't be good and the reason why i continue to have trust issues