Fake Friends
You need to
Them out of your life.
They aren't worth it. And, normally you don't know they're fake. I'm definitely not an expert but I've dealt with fake friends before
If you're a mom friend like I am you have a possibility of running into them a lot. Yet, you still wanna help them, because you help everyone.
Toxic or fake friends —whichever you wanna call them— are usually the ones taking advantage of your kindness. The ones I dealt with usually were talking to me about their problems but didn't really give a shit about how I or anyone else felt. Making the rest of my friends think they're self absorbed.
Now, there's a difference from being self absorbed and just all around rude.
There's the contrast of, "look at me I'm great" and, "Hey, look at me, I'm better than all of you."
Then, there's the topic of toxic relationships. We all know the cliché of someone being controlling over a short period of time.
And, Jaiden animations actually made a video about toxic relationships that helped me a lot. And some of her points I thought were pretty good.
One of them was, something along the lines of "no matter how hard it is, sometimes you need to end relationships until and unless they change."
It wasn't hard for me to drop my fake friendships because, I already anticipated it. But, some other people are in a bit of a weird situation with the "leave me and I'll hurt or kill myself or you." Which is something else Jaidens video also touched on.
And I've never been in that situation before but I can't imagine how hard it'd be to leave a person care about them or not when they threaten to harm themselves or you.
Listen, I know it's easier said than done but, leave them. It's been said to death about toxic relationships so maybe you should listen? I'm sorry and I don't mean to be rude but you do deserve better friends.
Ok, that was basically what I'm gonna do this entire book, rant about how I feel about certain topics even if nobody reads it.
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