Chapter 3 - How Far Can I Go With A Guy?
HOW FAR CAN I GO WITH A GUY
It will begin when a guy proposes you and you accept his proposal. You both will start going on dates, holding hands, giving gifts to each other and have fun in each other's company.There are points in time where a girl think she found her life partner,but that's not always the case. You can't meet him and then he proposes you to become your girlfriend and you accept. You need to analyse him first then take it one thing at a time.
Q.When is the right time to have sex?
A. The right time is whenever you feel comfortable. Don't have sex just because everyone else around you is or just because you want to experience it. Don't give yourself to the first person you meet for it can leave scars that no one will be able to heal. Particularly there is no right time to have sex. Some people don't feel comfortable even after they get married.
Sex is not about when but about who. The other person, how well do you know him/her? Can you trust your partner? How long have you been together? Are they with you only for sex? After this if you both end up expecting a baby, will the other person take the responsibility?
Question yourself before you take the next step.
Q. What is virginity?
Biologically virginity does not exist. If by virginity you mean the rupturing of hymen, during the first penetration while having sex then it is important to know that the hymen can rupture while doing non sexual acts like cycling.
Being a virgin does not make us pure or impure. It is just a tissue in our body, but society's expectations from women make them go to extreme measures such as hen reconstruction surgery in order to be accepted by the world.
Q. Is loosing your virginity a big deal?
A. It varies from person to person. For some its a very big deal while for others these things don't matter. Don't change how you feel or bury your personal opinion because of others around you. Some people don't think sex before marriage is appropriate but that does not mean everyone should think the same. Your first time is something you will always remember, so make sure it's with someone you can trust and someone who will not hurt you emotionally or physically.
During this session many females shared their personal opinions and their backstories. Majority of them said that they wanted to wait until they got married. They were scared of loosing their virginity before marriage because of what was happening around them. Their personal experience or the stories of their friends where they got betrayed just in the name of sex made them afraid of even thinking about this.
This is a matter where everyone can have different opinions and we are no one to dictate each other's choices. Just be safe and know what you are doing. Know that your safety should be your top priority. Never send your nudes to anyone not even to a person you have dated for several years because it can take one fight to make them go viral. Know the difference between right and wrong, know when you are ready and if so is your partner. Don't do something you don't want to because regretting later will be of no use.
That's all for today females, Hope we could help you with this information. Do DM us if you have any queries.
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