M'Kay-
So uh,, something happened between myself and someone else in PM that's really gotten to me?
And I'm not meaning in anyway to make this person (who I'm not naming in any way) feel ashamed or anything,, I don't mean any ill intent at all..! It's just this has gotten to me and i wanted to make this about what's happened?  Which I know sounds contradictory to what I've said but—
This is how I kinda wanna get things off of my chest,,

So this person messaged me last night (in my time zone anyways- ^^;)  asked why I was "claiming to be non-binary if I'm a girl". I explained that I don't identify as a female or male as I feel uncomfortable when using those pronouns, and I feel much more comfortable to use they/them. When I explained this the person then said "but you ARE a f*cking girl because your name is APRIL. Stop faking to be non-binary to get attention".
So,, this is the sentence that kinda... upset me a lot? Mainly because I explained as politely as I could that I feel uncomfortable to use or to be labelled as a female and feel much more happier using they/them pronouns,, yet they still insist otherwise?
The second point they had made (about my name) was something I already do feel a lil upset with? And I had been contemplating to change it to something more comfortable for me,but now this situation has kinda,, made my insecurities true??
I don't know if this is me being like,, dumb or anything? But like,, to have someone who you try to explain something to repeatedly say something they know makes you uncomfortable really really sucks..
But still, in no way am I trying to make this person feel bad for what they've said since honestly it's their opinion and I obviously can't change that. Yeah it made me feel really crappy about myself but like, I forgive them for what they'd said because maybe they just don't understand? And to not understand something can be very frustrating..! So yeah...
But I do feel really insecure about my name due to this whole situation? And since I was already having ideas to change my name,, So I'm trying to find a name that makes me a lot more comfortable? Something not too feminine (obviously—)
But yeah...
So any suggestions will be appreciated?
This is a weird way to end this kind of thing-
But I guess imma just go with it..!

Uhhh, Yeah-
Aaaanyways..~!
Baiiiiiii~~!