Thought both songs framed sex in a more darker light, one being about addiction to it, and the other being about a love/hate relationship. So here we go-

I Hate Everything About You (vocals) by Three Days Grace:

https://youtu.be/ItmArM6DF7E

Closer (music) by Nine Inch Nails:

https://youtu.be/ST3pYx0q_Ow