People can be really stupid.

Example:
"You cut your hair...."
"You've never dated anyone before..."

"ARE YOU HOMOSEXUAL?"

1 WHAT KIND OF REASONING IS THAT? WHAT WHAT WHATTTTT? ughhhhhhhhh

2 It's rude to ask someone that!

"You don't need to get defensive."

3 YOU PUT ME IN A POSITION THAT MAKES ME VULNERABLE, OF COURSE I'M GOING TO GET DEFENSIVE!

People have said this stuff to me...

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh